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Jamaican Men-Their Passion and Love
Filed under Jamaican CultureMar 9Jamaican men are admired throughout the world. This is no secret , the men of the small Island in
The Caribbean are so warmly received and noticed.Could this be a result of the confidence they display ? or the strength that is clearly seen within them? Could it be the leadership qualities that most are gifted with ?or maybe,just maybe that sexy low toned accent that has heads turning when they open their mouths. Jamaican men clearly stand out,because of their many great qualities and talents.
PASSION OF JAMAICAN MEN-Jamaican men are very passionate about their various interests. Although passion is an individual trait ,Culture plays an important roll in certain behavior.
FAMILY-is closest to a Jamaican man’ heart.His mother,father,siblings,wife,significant other and children are placed at the front of his life.He will never sit back and allow anyone to hurt or to disrespect the people in his life.Jamaican men hold a dear place in their hearts always for their mothers, and feels like they have the responsibility to take care of her as long as she is alive. Mama’s cooking is usually a comforting treat.The bond between mom and sons are usually inseparable and ladies who come into these men’s live should embrace the relationship between the man and his mother or this could be the beginning of a long battle and unhappiness.
Jamaican men protect their wives and children like a hawk over her young one.Their wives are like a trophy placed on a high shelf ,that can only be looked at but not touched by anyone else. Their children are their little jewels that causes sparkles in their eyes and are constantly protected.
HIS VEHICLE-Jamaican men take great passion in the vehicle of their choice. No matter the cost,once they own that vehicle ,it is treated with dignity and pride.He spend a great deal of time and money on his vehicles ,ensuring that it is properly maintained and looks its best.The emphasis are usually placed on ,the tires ,the rims,the music,engine upgrade and the interior design.The Jamaican men are usually very detailed in cleaning and maintaining their vehicles.
HIS BOYS OR HIS BUDDIES- Jamaican men need time with their best friends and buddies.Usually this is the time they let their guards down and become boys,letting go of the stress and demands that comes with their various responsibilities,This time with the guys are usually spent with a few beers,liquors and food.The guys’ fun time sometimes include watching a game of some sport,playing dominoes or cards or just hanging out to talk.The atmosphere is usually filled with humor , laughter and carefree conversations.The Jamaican man is usually loyal to his close buddies and often forms a brother like bond with his friends for years.
ADMIRATION OF BEAUTIFUL WOMEN-Jamaican men enjoys admiring beautiful women. He is usually never afraid to let her know he admires her beauty,even if he is already in a serious relationship.He however never mixes fun admiration with real love.Love to a Jamaican man is taken very seriously.A Jamaican man does not use the words ” I LOVE YOU’ loosely.Women can know if a Jamaican man really loves them by his actions and he definitely will tell you when he is in love with you.Another way he displays his feeling of being in love is that he showers you with undivided attention and care.Admiration from a Jamaican man can be forceful and can be easily be mistaken for love,but if taken slowly a woman can detect his real motive quite easily.
REAL LOVE – Although love comes at various age,guys usually feel deeply for a girl as early as 16-20years old(sometimes even earlier).At this stage, he feels that this is the girl of his dream and
wife to be.At this early stage ,girls are usually a bit more flirty and is enjoying the sudden admiration and attention she is getting from various admirers.This behavior many times lead to broken hearts and hurt for the guys .The guy then move forward guarding his heart ,feeling he can join in the game of flirting ,while playing it safe,not getting seriously involved in one relationship.The guy then begins this pattern of flirting and is then branded as ”A PLAYER”.This player label is worn for sometime and often times lead to major issues later in a more serious relationship.While some Jamaican men continue the player attitude for their whole lives,most men mature and settle down, after going around the block a few times or as they would say “When they find the right lady”.
The Jamaican man likes the woman to take things slow at first.He put his woman to the test by her actions during their early dating stage.The Jamaican man even though very modern ,is very old fashioned when it comes on to a serious relationship.Even though he might be around the block a few times himself , he does not take very seriously ,a woman who has been around the block a few times or is still going around the block,This is a no-no for Jamaican men.Their test in the beginning is to prove that their woman will not be easily lured in by another man.He likes a little resistance and mystery from a woman in the beginning of a relationship,therefore sex on the first or second date and the woman’s entire life story, very rarely would lead to marriage or a very serious relationship.The Jamaican man looks for a caring attitude and stable character in a woman during the early dating stage to know if she might be the right one for him .
The Jamaican man will marry the woman he falls in love with. This woman usually is confident,a woman who makes him feel secure in the relationship,a woman who gives him a lot of attention and shows interest in the security of his finances,who gives him his space when he has that need ,who respects him and allows him to be himself,who is family oriented and who stands by his side through thick and thin.
A woman will know if the Jamaican man really loves her, when he starts to include her in his plans for the future.Another tell tale sign is when he takes her to meet his family and close friends.A major sign is when he starts confiding in her about his feelings,finances,failures and achievements. When he starts including her in his fun activities and his daily life is wrapped around her,then she is in a great place ,in his heart ! The woman can also know if she is taken very seriously when she is asked to play a more active roll in his daily life. The Jamaican man shows the woman he loves her by putting her before his personal feelings and even before his friends and family.He is certainly in love with the woman when he refers to her as is woman or his wife. Usually the Jamaican man gets very relaxed around the woman he loves , he feels he can trust her and also be himself without harsh criticisms. As He becomes more comfortable he says he loves her more frequently.The guessing is out of the question when she sees the passion in his eyes as he expresses his love to her with great admiration.
COMMITMENT – The next step with the Jamaican man is commitment. This is not a very easy step
for him as he takes it very seriously and sees it as a ”till death do we part” step. He usually shows with an engagement ring or a marriage proposal.However ladies some Jamaican men might need a little reminder in that direction as not all are hopelessly romantic. Our article , How to stay married to a Jamaican Man” reveals important steps how to have a long and lasting love , and how to enjoy heaven while on earth living with a Jamaican man.OTHER ARTICLE:
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14 Responses to “Jamaican Men-Their Passion and Love”
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davon said on August 19th, 2012 at 9:15 pm
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Ochi said on August 26th, 2012 at 7:19 am
If all of the above was true then I wonder why so many Jamaican women are single moms with not support from their sperm donors.
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Rocki said on September 27th, 2012 at 11:39 pm
Well I sure appreciated this article! I love Jamaican men! They are special, loving, warm-hearted, giving, and genuine. They are confident, not scared to show their feelings. You are in utter bliss knowing one! 🙂
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Daalin said on January 31st, 2013 at 8:00 pm
Wow, what I read really hits home. This is my guy all over! He is great!
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monique said on February 27th, 2013 at 6:49 am
Jamaican men are nothing but liars and cheaters. They roam around like an animal preying upon women to satisfy their sexual appetites and they don’t care who they hurt in the process.
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Angela said on March 5th, 2013 at 4:46 pm
Jamaican men are charming and are damn good in bed. They are not big on communication which is key to having a lasting relationship. They do show you what they are made of love them and leave them alone. If you can walk away from that good lovin!!!
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Ridel Cross said on March 7th, 2013 at 1:33 am
I agree with Monique.
Jamaican men are misogynistic assholes who feel entitled to be cheating whores and uncaring jerks!!!! They are possessive, jealous, controlling, sexist and insecure and every woman I’ve ever known talks about how arrogant and self-serving they are!!!
Don’t waste your time with them…they are horrible self-centered lovers in bed…they don’t like going downtown and many of them are down low faggots!!!
They are not to be trusted!
Peace and one love!!!
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Queen said on August 22nd, 2013 at 5:35 pm
Sorry, but I don’t agree with you Ridel. I have a Jamaican man and he’s great in EVERY aspect! However, he’s jealous in his own way, but in a cute way without signs of disrespect.
He’s never controlling, insecure, nor is he a sexist. I think women are treated by men according to how they project their image and behavior to their man. Whether a man is Jamaican or not, he deserves the same level of respect that he give to you and it should be appreciated and nurtured at all times.
Queen
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bhagya said on August 23rd, 2013 at 9:16 am
If they really are like..I feel blessed to b with my Jamaican bf..cuz we don’t hav dis great men in India for sure !
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Lisa said on August 27th, 2013 at 12:09 am
My Jamaican we our in love he treats better than any American guy I have dated or married. They all have there problems. But he is totally different treats me like a Queen and cares about my well being. I would not trade for a American guy.
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guru said on September 21st, 2013 at 9:46 pm
haha. the comments here are harsh but somewhat true. I’m a jcan guy and trust me i have friends who are assholes and otherwise. But per the comments, not all of us are liars and cheats. I love my girlfriend and would protect her without the slightest hesitation. Hopefully i’ll be able to call her my wife in a few years. Yes the liars and cheats are many, but just don’t forget about the true jamaican men.
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sanny said on October 9th, 2013 at 1:27 pm
more than true…………..those are not deserve to say……..man
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sanny said on October 9th, 2013 at 1:42 pm
Ochi&Monique wrote a great comment……………….jamaicans are the worse you can meet………….go there,enjoy sun&beach…………leave those dirty ineducated,dishonest liers,dont pay attention what they are saying,everything is only to get money or visa from you……………i am from europe,have been there a few times with friends…………..if you want a real men,dont search there…………….there everything is only a game,everything is fake…………..
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poohbear said on December 5th, 2013 at 9:35 pm
My guy seems to fit the bill..unfortunately no matter if it’s a Jamaican, African, Asian, American there are good and bad men in all of them.. you just need to know the signs.
